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My Declaration of Self Esteem

I AM ME

In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me
Everything that comes out of me is authentically me
Because I alone chose it - I own everything about me
My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions,
Whether they be to others or to myself - I own my fantasies,
My dreams, my hopes, my fears - I own all my triumphs and
Successes, all my failures and mistakes Because I own all of
Me, I can become intimately acquainted with me - by so doing
I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know
There are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other
Aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am
Friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously
And hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles
And for ways to find out more about me - However I
Look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever
I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically
Me - If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought
And felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is
Unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that
Which I discarded - I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do
I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be
Productive to make sense and order out of the world of
People and things outside of me - I own me, and
therefore I can engineer me - I am me and

I AM OKAY

© Virginia Satir, 1975.

14
Jun
07

Posted by Mystery Wolf
In Malaysia

2 Comments

  1. jonnie fiss, June 16, 2007:

    wonderful Wolfie!…did you write it yourself?
    I am considering adopting that for myself.

  2. Mystery Wolf, June 17, 2007:

    It’s written by Virginia Satir, an American author and psychotherapist.

    I saw this poem etched on a huge glass wall while I was sitting in a Black Canyon Coffee House in the middle of Bangkok, Thailand.

    It was really inspiring to me, so I thought I’d share it with everyone :-)


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